A tough (though useful) life lesson I’m starting to get (after years of trying to please every coach, teacher, boss, and other “authority figure,” even into adulthood, and seeing that I, too, had begun to rely on others in order…
College Applications and the Land of Comparisons
My oldest’s college application process has been interesting to witness, both for her and her peers as well as what it’s brought about for me. It’s been eye-opening to see highlighted old stories I still grip and continue to reactivate…
A Working Theory and Other Notes to Self
Today I could use some reminders to self. So here goes: I can’t parent “wrong”. There are an infinite number of ways something could be done (and I can never know exactly what would be best for someone else because…
On Happiness
Today’s note to self for our teens (and us too!): You are responsible for your own happiness. You are not responsible for making anyone else (such as your friends, teachers, parents, or significant others) happy, nor are they responsible for…
Finding Happiness (Or Not)
Today’s food for thought is on happiness. Happiness (the sustainable kind) doesn’t live in food and drink, nor in social media scrolling, compliments, new toys, or promotions. Sure, sometimes things outside of us can bring fun, smiles, and immediate good feelings…